UBULILI NENGCULAZI ? INGABE KUNGANI ?

Igama "ubulili" liyadida. Kubantu abaningi, "ubulili" buphatha abesimame, kanti empeleni kuphathelene nezinto ezenzeka kubantu besimame nabesilisa, okusho ukuthi into yawowonke umuntu: umsebenzi owenziwa abantu, imali abayiholayo, imisebenzi abanikezelwa yona kanye nobudlelwano abanabo konke okuholwa amasiko aphatha abantu besilisa nabesifizane ngedlela engafani. Ukucwasana ngobulili kunendima okuyidlalayo ekubhebhezeleni ingculazi ngalezizindlela:

Abesifazane Abahlangabezana Nako:

Ukungalingani kobulili kuyabakhubaza abesifazane ngalezindlela ezilandelayo:

? Ukuzithoba = abesifazane kubenza bangakwazi ukuzithathela izinqumo mayelana nokuya ocansini.
? Ukuncika kwabesifazane kubantu besilisa ngakwezomnotho, kwenza badayise ngemizimba yabo ukuze baphile.
? Ukungabi nolwazi kwezocansi kwenza bathandeke kakhulu kubantu besilisa babo.
? Ukubhebhetheka kokuhlukumezeka (ngokomzimba, ngokomoya nangokocansi), kuyalinyusa izinga lokutheleleka ngengculazi.
? Injwayelo yokuthi abesifazane bathule bangakhulumi baphinde babukeleke phansi.
? Ijoko lokunakekela amalunga omndeni agulayo.
? Ukubandlululwa ekutholeni imithi yokwelashwa nonakekelo.
? Indlela imizimba yabantu besifazane eyakhiwe ngayo yenza kubelula ukuthi bathole igciwane.

Abesilisa Abahlangabezana Nako:

Abesilisa ikakhulukazi abasebancane nabo bayakhubazeka ngalendlela:

? Bavumelana nemithetho ebikiwe yokuthi umuntu wesilisa kumele aphathe, okukhuphula izinga labo lokuthi bathole igciwane futhi kwehlise nezinga lokuthi bakwazi ukuzivikela nokuthi bavikele nabanye.
? Bayagqugquzelwa ukuthi baye ocansini futhi babe nophathini abaningi kukhona bezoduma.
? Kubantu besilisa ubudoda nokugculiseka ngokocansi kuhtathwa njengento ebalulekile futhi kuyagqugquzelwa.
? Amadoda afundiswa ukuthi akube iwona athatha izinqumo ngezocansi nokuthi yibona kuphela abanelungelo lokuba nenkululeko, amandla, ukuphatha kanye nokungahlulwa.
? Ukungabibikho kwamathuba omsebenzi kwenza amadoda ahambe ashiye emakhaya, okuholela ekuphazamisekeni kwempilo yasekhaya okwenza bahlale bodwa bese kuholela ekutheni basebenzise izidakamizwa bathenge nocansi.

Imikhankaso ephathelene nengculazi ecabangelana nezimo zobulili

? Izinhlelo zokuvikela ingculazi eziphathelene nobulili futhi ezikucabangelayo ukuhluka kwamasiko, aziziningi kanti leyo ekhona isebenza ngabesifazane kuphela.
? Izinhlelo eziningi zikhombisa amadoda njengabadlwenguli, kanye nezigebengu ezicuthela abesifazane ? kanti abesifazane badinga amakhono okukwazi ukuzivikela uma behlukunyezwa emakhaya, e.g. bangawasebenzisa kanjani amalungelo abo ekutheni bazikhethele ukuthi baya kanjani ocansini nabantu abazwana nabo.
? Abaxhasi bezimali kumele babhekelele kakhulu izinhlelo ezibheke izidingo zabesifazane, besabheke ukuthi imibono ekhona ngokuthi buyini ubudoda yakheke kanjani.

Abaqashi Abahlangabezana Nako:

? Izinhlelo ezibhekelela izinto eziphathelene nobulili kumelwe zibekwe njengomthetho futhi bonke abadlala indima bazinikele ekwakhiweni kwalomthetho.
? Ukuqeqesha iyonandlela esebenzayo ekutheni izinhlelo zokuqwashisa ngengculazi zibhekelele izinto eziphathelene nobulili.
? Olunye ucwaningo luyadingeka ekutheni kusetshenziswe izingxoxo njengendlela yokwenza kubengcono ukuxoxisana ngezocansi phakathi kwabesilisa nabesifazane ekuqhakambiseni ukwehliswa kwezinga lokuthelelana ngengculazi.
? Amakhondomu abesifazane kufanele atholakala yonke indawo futhi kubelula ukuwathenga ngenani eliphansi.

Indlela Engcono Yokuphatha Izinhlelo Ezimayelana Nobulili Ngasohlangothini Lwengculazi

? Kubalulekile ukwenza izinhlelo ezihanbisana nomthetho kanye namalungelo abantu ezintweni eziphathelene nobulili.
? Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuphumela obala nokudlulisela ulwazi emphakathini wonke, sibe sicabangela indlela umphakathi wethu owakhiwe ngayo.
?Kumele kubekhona ukusukunyelwa kokunikezelwa kwemithi kubantu abaphila negciwane lengculazi.
? Isixazululo siyadingeka phakathi kwalabo abaphila negciwane lengculazi kanye nalabo ababandlululayo.
? Izindlela zokulwa nesifo sengculazi kumele zilethe izinxazululo futhi ziqhubekele phambili.

Inselelo enkulu umphakathi abhekene nayo ukuthi ashintshe indela ocabanga ngayo ukuze sikwazi ukulwa nokunqoba isifo sengculazi.

Ihlanganiswe ngu Patricia Manele, (ongumphathi wezinhlelo zobulili we National Community Radio Forum-NCRF)

Xhuma:

Nskz. Busayo Ige
Centre for Gender Studies
University of KwaZulu-Natal, Durban 4041
Ucingo: (031) 260 2915
Email: [email protected]

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